Finding Clarity in a Noisy World
What is it that drives you? What is it that causes you to react to your emotions the way that you do? Is it psychological? Maybe necessity? Age? Experience? Ego? Whatever it is, are you reacting in a manner that is constructive to not only your own progression but that of those close enough to hear you?
Something I have noticed as the clock continues to tic and the lines around my eyes become more defined, is the way that I handle and react to written dialogue. The cliche about age and wisdom takes on a new meaning as I no longer feel like I need to be “right” or have the conclusive answer to the topic at hand. The piss-and-vinegar has dried up and I am more in-tuned and focused on finding a solution to the problem, rather than adding to it.
One thing I can be sure of is that the more you close yourself to criticism and the more you take yourself serious, the more others will not. Don’t get me wrong, if something seems out-of-place or makes no sense to you, challenge it, don’t be afraid to be wrong… there are plenty of experts willing to explain. Asking the questions or challenging a point-of-view will also spark others to explore it and possibly have alternative, (in some cases) better views or solutions.
No matter how much static you create, if you aren’t aiming it in the right direction, it is only noise. Make it be heard.


Nicole Glynn
Sunday, 22nd November 2009 at 5:12 pm
Hi, I just found this article on Stumbleupon and just wanted to say that I adore your sites design. The colors are great and the typography lovely.
Paul Sutton
Sunday, 22nd November 2009 at 5:27 pm
Why thank you Nicole, it’s nice to know StumbleUpon still serves a purpose.
Zoe Simpson
Monday, 30th November 2009 at 3:02 pm
What you said about closing yourself to criticism and taking yourself seriously is succinct. Respect can only be given – it can never be taken (respect that is taken is often called fear).
Like yourself, I found myself enjoying the perspective that only experience and time can offer a few years ago and have to admit the freedom is very nice.
P.S. Very nice re-design.
Paul Sutton
Monday, 30th November 2009 at 3:36 pm
Indeed it is. Thanks for the comments.